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Reader Letters #1, Resources

If you read the Reader Letters #1 series: part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, and the epilogue and still want to do further research on your own, I’ve decided to put some relevant links to good related resources. I know it’s a lot, but that’s the point. There are no easy […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 5

Links to the previous installments of the series: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 As you’re already aware, this is the final part in a series of letter from a reader named Bill. The advice in this series  is specifically meant for people with codependent tendencies, so keep that in mind as you […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 4.1

When I was doing Part 4 to this series, I did a lot of research on the internet and in the book The Game to try to make a psychological profile. One thing I found interesting though was how little of Neil Strauss’s background, particularly his childhood and upbringing, was discussed, as opposed to Mystery’s, […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 4

INTRO This is part 4 in a series. Here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. You need to read all three parts before proceeding, because I am going to repeatedly refer to concepts from those first three parts. If you don’t read them beforehand you’ll end up lost. One of […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 3

This is the third part of a response to a letter from reader Bill asking for advice. Part 1 can be found here. Part 2 can be found here. You should read both parts before reading this one. This installment is about chemistry, and what it means. In Bill’s original letter he stated: I started […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 2

[This is a long post, so to make it easier to read you may want to hit the “Print This Post” link above the post title.] Before starting, I want to make it clear that I am in no shape or form a mental health professional and have zero credentials in such that area. If […]

Reader Letters #1, Part 1

Last year, a reader named Bill wrote me asking for help with an ex-girlfriend who was making his life hell by spreading false rape rumors about him around their community. We spoke back and forth, and I determined she suffered from Cluster B personality disorders, particularly Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Histrionic Personality […]