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Reader Letters #1, Resources

If you read the Reader Letters #1 series: part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, and the epilogue and still want to do further research on your own, I’ve decided to put some relevant links to good related resources. I know it’s a lot, but that’s the point. There are no easy [...]

Movie Recommendation #2: The Moon and Sixpence

Here is a link to the previous installment of this series, where I recommended the movie “Darling.” Movie Recommendation #1: Darling On Sunday at 10:15 AM, the cable network Turner Classic Movies is airing “The Moon and Sixpence,” a 1942 movie based on a novel of the same name by W. Somerset Maugham. It’s loosely [...]

Reader Letters #1, Epilogue

I want to take this time to respond to questions from part 5 of the Reader Letters #1 series. First, here’s a question from Kal Ross: I saw the solution to being a codependent as mourning first, becoming self accepting second, and then partaking in social interests and having real empathy (which also keeps us [...]

New Post Up At Planet Ill

I wrote a new post for Planet Ill’s “What.Is.Black” series. My installment is “What.Is.Black: Fried Chicken” where I discuss the joys of fried chicken and defend Mary J. Blige’s Burger King commercial. By the way, don’t forget to support this site. The Rawness would appreciate your help.

Support The Rawness

I’m writing this as an open appeal for people to support this blog. If you have been enjoying this blog, if this blog has been giving you intellectual stimulation and food for thought, if this blog has given you practical, useful advice that has gotten you real world results, or even if this blog has [...]

For RSS Feed Readers – Part 5 Is Up

For people out there reading my blog through RSS feed readers, I was recently made aware that my latest post, Reader Letters #1, Part 5,  didn’t update in RSS readers. I think that’s due to the sheer size of the post, so I’m making this smaller post letting people know the latest installment is up, [...]

Reader Letters #1, Part 5

Links to the previous installments of the series: Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 As you’re already aware, this is the final part in a series of letter from a reader named Bill. The advice in this series  is specifically meant for people with codependent tendencies, so keep that in mind as you [...]

The Delay

I want to apologize to Bill and all the readers disappointed by the delay in my getting part 5 up. It’s been due to three reasons. First, I was a little burnt out and spent from writing up part 4, which was a monster of a post at 20,000+ words, and recharging mentally took a [...]

31 Days of Game Is Taken Down And Other Matters

I’ve decided to take down the 31 Days of Game. At some point soon I’m going to revisit the concept to figure out whether I’m just going to get rid of them altogether, revise them, or do a combination where I keep some, revise others, and junk the rest. The reason I took them down [...]

Movie Reminder

A while ago in this post I mentioned the movie Darling starting Julie Christie as a movie that is a great example of an emotional vampire Cluster B type in action. She plays Diana Scott, nicknamed “Darling,” and she’s a pure narcissist through and through. Christie won the Academy Award for Best Actress for her performance [...]

New RSS Feature

                    I have a feed for those who want to track all comments made on the blog in their RSS reader. You can see this feed up permanently now in the sidebar on the right, or you can click the feed below or enter it into [...]