Comments on: Why You Can’t Get Married, Pt. 1

By: mmmmmmmm

mmmmmmmm — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:16:46 +0000

Men are not as shallow as women. Show me a male nurse married to a female doctor. Show me a thin,educated,attractive woman married to a blue collar man. I don’t know why women cannot admit this. Stats have already shown that 2/3 of women marry someone with a higher education and/or salary than them at the time of marriage. No wonder there are so many male alcoholics. Women destroy their self esteem.

I too am doomed for a life of singledom. I have high standards and refuse to settle. Unfortunately, I am a man so finding someone better than me is a pipe dream.

By: Try Toys Direct

Try Toys Direct — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:32:30 +0000

I don’t beleive that most men are shallow. There are alot of guys looking for a good women. You have to remember that there are like 3-4 females for every male (Atlest thats what the stats say).

By: Barbra Crane

Barbra Crane — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 02:40:03 +0000

I am guesing that I cant get pregnant without artifisial insemination because I am not attractive and fat. And guys think Im kinda gross and dont wanna be with me. So I went to a spearm bank to get pregnant.

By: T

Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:28:04 +0000

Wow.
I have to agree with most of this as a black woman. I really do. One thing that bothers me, is the amount of time I see my 21-25 year old friends wasting. They are with complete losers that don’t want to go anywhere with them…and I just think to myself how they are wasting thier prime. What better time to get out there and find someone, instead of waking up 30+ and single with no kids and expecting things to be any easier then?

By: SchadenfreudianSlip

SchadenfreudianSlip — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 18:23:17 +0000

In an amazing reversal of plot, I am only useful for sex, and then withholding it. And she? She got “career” and “corner office.” I’d be happy to be her trophy stud.

And would y’all PLEASE stop calling it “midlife crisis” because it looks like you’rew buying into their humiliation and shaming game. What is IS, exactly, is waking the F up and realizing how EVERYONE lied to you about nearly everything!

By: katie

katie — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 21:31:14 +0000

Okay, if a guy wants a hot looking younger wife, then why the hell am I single? Not to be vain, but I am more attractive then most of my peers (no i don’t tell people that and am not vain if your wondering if this is why i can’t get a guy).

I’m nice, outgoing, honest, willing to work on relationships and have a good job but nothing that would be considered threatening to a man. According to this articles philosphy, i should have a man. Also i’m 27 years old and am skinny and have a great ass and boobs (sorry to be crude). So what the hell is going on!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:34:35 +0000

you are a complete idiot, and have over simplified human sexuality beyond reprehension.

By: steph

steph — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 13:14:44 +0000

Great post. I definately agree with everything that was said. I’m 20 yrs old, recently single and although I’m almost finishing school and building my career in the future is really important. I place finding a wonderful life partner to have kids higher on my list than becoming extremely successful.I think its important to start young because i believe there’s better chance of me finding a husband between now and the age of 25 than about age 30 and higher.

By: Kiefer

Kiefer — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 02:49:52 +0000

For starters why do some people think what they own entitles them to finding a mate?

Or what education they have?

Maybe this is the problem in the first place?

You say a woman should capitalize on here youth and looks, so you think when they go away she wont be replaced? Or worse they have affairs, sounds like a marriage made in heaven to me.

Its no wonder the divorce rate is so high.

Yes for the most part older guys want a younger girl but it has nothing to do with reproduction. It has to do with two things, sex, and making him feel younger.

Call it a midlife crisis if you will.

Oh and it comes with the added benefit that he will be the king of his castle.

Wouldn?t it be better if the woman didn?t loose her looks and youth in the first place?

Did you ever here the term MILF?

I keep telling people you don?t have to get old, people spend way to much time on material things instead of taking care of the most precious resource they have.

Their body, yes we all age but you don?t have to get old!

http://kieferscorner.com

By: single101

single101 — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 03:28:29 +0000

I live in Toronto. Worst place for dating ever I would say. I go out to clubs, take language classes, work, work out, go to bars, spend time with friends, have tried internet dating, and nothing. And no I’m not too picky, the majority of men I’ve given chances to my friends would have never even looked at twice.

So any advice?