And who on earth would accept a walking STD bomb as a partner? Eww.

As for the authour of this article, I find it funny that you argue the case of polygyny from a evolutionist point of view, yet dismiss polyandry from a moral bias point of view. In fact when men are aware that women have several to choose from and can have multiple partners depending on their resources and physical health, they’ll start to compete with each other, thus improving themselves and becomming more desirable on a large scale. Now if women only could raise the bar a little :/

PS.: I do not condone sleeping around, be it male or female and find it quite ignoble and a sign of utter lack of restraint- very much like animals, except that animals do not have an intellect, so they are at least excused for this lowly behaviour.

For instance, most of the posts here assume that women are not deterred by men with high numbers of sexual partners, in fact equating male promiscuity with ‘alpha’ status. The truth is that most young men who dedicate excessive attention to getting laid all the time are far from alphas and while they my pick up loads of trashy sluts (and their stds), they are unlikely to be successful in the more mundane game of Capitalism.

On the contrary, most women who are mature and intelligent enough to be successful mothers will be revolted by men who have slept with 30 or more women. Even if they do fantasize about the Brad Pitts of the world, women don’t all sleep with the most promiscuous males – this is reserved for the trashy sluts or young and impressionable girls whostill have to learn some tough lessons.

Most females will leave the ‘meat market’ younger than males and so even though they were able to have sex more easily, they probably have fewer sex partners than males who fail to be as promiscuous as they would like to be.

For those guys out there who hate women because they have had bad experiences and are convinced it is because they are not ‘alpha’ males, just remember that all those years of evolution gave us the gift of reflection and the ability to transcend our primal instincts. If you really want to sleep with the most desirable women and you lack the social skills or status to achieve that in a bar, then spend your money on high-class prostitutes.

And for the ladies who think it is unfair that they are called sluts when they are promiscuous? Start paying for sex if you really just want sex, The truth is that you probably have an unsatisfying life and rather than just sex (like you could get from a prostitute) you are looking to exploit your sexual power at the expense of a fellow human being. A female slut is abusing power in a similar way to a male rapist, but her power is emotional rather than physical.

In a nutshell, men who are sexual predators are equally as unattractive to intelligent and wise females as female sluts are to intelligent and wise males.
Furthermore, men who think promiscuity makes them ‘alpha’ males almost always deceive themselves about the quality of the females involved in their conquests and end up being the big losers in a capitalist society. Lastly, sluts and the sexual predators are despised because they exploit and harm other humans – men and women often feel safe as sexual predators or sluts, until they are ‘outed’ and then they are all alone and none of their fair-weather friends wants to be tarred with same brush as their life descends into tragedy.

black arrow, you said: “I mean in the day an age where by divorce is rampant and the corrupt divorce courts overwhelmingly slide in the womens favour, another unequality I don’t see women complaining about, why in gods name is any man going to risk losing his assets, children, wealth, happiness etc to a loose woman reformed or not!”
just so you know, this doesn’t always happen. there are many ways that the dice are rolled in divorce court. if you’ve never been divorced, or that particular situation hasn’t happened in your family, don’t be so quick to shout of uneducated “facts”. your entire post was the same complaining that you’re condemning. and fyi, it’s “inequality”, “unequality” isn’t a word.

i guess i’m just trying to point out that there are good people out there, and all of the stereotypes discussed also come with upsets. you people are all complaining about something, a double standard, etc, but what you don’t realize as you tear each other to pieces is that there is so much more to life than arguing over frivolous details, or some man’s post. obviously, it’s his opinion. you can all have different opinions, but share them! don’t yell out all of the profanities that you know. don’t condemn the other sex. we all have to live together, we can’t let the world slip into this attitude.

oh and jeff, the dude who posted this: “For those women who are too stupid to understand what I wrote, let me explain in even simpler terms:” and this: “Women don’t want nice, decent guys. They want the bad boy, the rich guy. Most of you are users, whores, sluts, gold-diggers, narcissists, self-centered, whiners, man-haters, manipulators, CUNTS! You use your pussies to manipulate and control men, basically. Maybe women need to be the ones to do some changing for once instead of trying to fix men! Ever think of that Ladies?!?! Take your feminist ideas and shove them up your cunts! It’s probably stuffed with something else already, though!”

i think you got all the bad and offensive words in your personal dictionary out of your system.. but are you a woman? i don’t think so. who are you to say that “women don’t want nice, decent guys”? maybe all the women you’ve met are like that, but why don’t you surround yourself with people you don’t hate?

I also don’t get how this is mens fault that there is a stigma to being a slut. Most guys arent openly hostile to sluts and are in fact nice to them even though they dont respect them because of how easy they are. Its other women who are openly hostile to you because you truly are a slut or because they are jealous and that’s just the way it is.

One last thing, even if us men were to start telling you good job for being a slut, the stigma is not going anywhere because men nor women deep down respect a slut, just like neither a man or a women respects a low status man who is a virgin for obvious reasons. It’s funny because while other women come to slut’s defense on a daily basis us men never back up our fellow men who don’t have much success with women. I guess because we are in constant competition with each other and a man who can’t snag himself a women just means more for us.