Comments on: Why Women Are Called Sluts When They Sleep Around, But Men Aren’t http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/ human nature Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:01:16 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: jasmine http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2283 jasmine Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:15:27 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2283 I do realise that men can get some stick for sleeping around, but in no way is it comparable to the way women get insulted for doing the same thing, I think most people can agree on that. We all have needs so we should all be able to embrace them whenever we feel like doing so, both men & women alike. :twisted: But I do agree that there is inequality for men also like you said, so fair point raised. I do realise that men can get some stick for sleeping around, but in no way is it comparable to the way women get insulted for doing the same thing, I think most people can agree on that.
We all have needs so we should all be able to embrace them whenever we feel like doing so, both men & women alike. :twisted:

But I do agree that there is inequality for men also like you said, so fair point raised.

]]> By: fella http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2281 fella Tue, 18 Nov 2008 00:58:46 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2281 well. you've speared the head of a whole loada stuff there. though it does appear, judging by all that text. that you probably got pissed and wrote all that :lol: hey man, either you're chock full of integrity or paralysed by fear. you know that she knows she got you by the nuts. and it seems to me. everytime you wriggle, she squeezes a little harder. this is why men have to be stubborn. they (women) have got us cornered and it only takes one to run you through. i am by nature, a sensitive guy but i believe in being a spikey son of a bitch. you gotta shoot them down when they pull their manipulative shite. they all do it. their definition of a good boyfriend is a subversive dope who'll keep taking punches and apologise for it. i'm in the process of cutting out my heart. my girlfriend has accused me of giving her spots on her vagina and is adament that ive been cheating. ive not been within seven inches of a single female soul. women are good at these games. though she has said she loves me, she doesnt trust at all. fuck all of the "ogamys". i believe in unilateralism. the pursuit of wholeness in one's self and lateral thinking. it's natural to seek companionship but we've got to want it. not need it. i dont think it's right to "need" people. when i first met her, i was instantly besotted. she stood by for months before she reciprocated any affections. initially, prefaring one of my work collegues. then after a month or so we'd been going out and id heard of another. two guys that i worked with! but fair enough, she didnt actually cheat (or so i believe). ive always tried saying to myself "i'm the one she's with blah blah blah" but then i think "fuck her"! im just the soft twat at the end of a line who believed in a fantasy. i had built her up so much that i just had to come down to earth. and here iam. it's not right! we shouldnt allow this. she is lovely, deep down but she doesnt deserve my commitment to her. ive given her a year. and im still hearing the same mistrustful and hurtful accusations. she may be off fucking some nobhead now as means of tackling her grief or to stick it to me. i dont know for sure but she is a woman after all. they know how to cover their tracks and sop it up with excuses instead of just admiting to having an itchy fanny. they always have their cake and eat it. then they get fat and no fucker wants them and its just a matter of timing which silly sod gets bolted down with someone elses bastard child. "surprise! you're fucked!" well. you’ve speared the head of a whole loada stuff there. though it does appear, judging by all that text. that you probably got pissed and wrote all that :lol: hey man, either you’re chock full of integrity or paralysed by fear. you know that she knows she got you by the nuts. and it seems to me. everytime you wriggle, she squeezes a little harder. this is why men have to be stubborn. they (women) have got us cornered and it only takes one to run you through. i am by nature, a sensitive guy but i believe in being a spikey son of a bitch. you gotta shoot them down when they pull their manipulative shite. they all do it. their definition of a good boyfriend is a subversive dope who’ll keep taking punches and apologise for it. i’m in the process of cutting out my heart. my girlfriend has accused me of giving her spots on her vagina and is adament that ive been cheating. ive not been within seven inches of a single female soul. women are good at these games. though she has said she loves me, she doesnt trust at all. fuck all of the “ogamys”. i believe in unilateralism. the pursuit of wholeness in one’s self and lateral thinking. it’s natural to seek companionship but we’ve got to want it. not need it. i dont think it’s right to “need” people. when i first met her, i was instantly besotted. she stood by for months before she reciprocated any affections. initially, prefaring one of my work collegues. then after a month or so we’d been going out and id heard of another. two guys that i worked with! but fair enough, she didnt actually cheat (or so i believe). ive always tried saying to myself “i’m the one she’s with blah blah blah” but then i think “fuck her”! im just the soft twat at the end of a line who believed in a fantasy. i had built her up so much that i just had to come down to earth. and here iam. it’s not right! we shouldnt allow this. she is lovely, deep down but she doesnt deserve my commitment to her. ive given her a year. and im still hearing the same mistrustful and hurtful accusations. she may be off fucking some nobhead now as means of tackling her grief or to stick it to me. i dont know for sure but she is a woman after all. they know how to cover their tracks and sop it up with excuses instead of just admiting to having an itchy fanny. they always have their cake and eat it. then they get fat and no fucker wants them and its just a matter of timing which silly sod gets bolted down with someone elses bastard child. “surprise! you’re fucked!”

]]> By: fella http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2263 fella Mon, 17 Nov 2008 01:47:56 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2263 granted. i can get a little extreme in my descriptions, fair enough. the point i was making is that most guys in desperate need of sex (the vast majority of us have been there at some point)tend to become over zealous and scare women away or lose faith in themselves and become reclusive. which can lead to all kinds of pent up feelings of bitterness or resentment either turned inwardly on themselves or outwardly on the opposite sex and the rest of the world. basically if men appear to be wanting,the chances of getting are very slim. saying that men are not slated for sleeping round is untrue. why is it then that women sleep around and call it liberating and when men do the same we get refered to as "a pig"? as if its disrespectful to admit that we have needs. men are conditioned to keep things bottled up and women are always turned off when we cry. thats a fact. equality can only be a door that swings both ways. Many of us guys do often feel like the weaker sex, believe me. we just know that its suicide to admit to it granted. i can get a little extreme in my descriptions, fair enough. the point i was making is that most guys in desperate need of sex (the vast majority of us have been there at some point)tend to become over zealous and scare women away or lose faith in themselves and become reclusive. which can lead to all kinds of pent up feelings of bitterness or resentment either turned inwardly on themselves or outwardly on the opposite sex and the rest of the world. basically if men appear to be wanting,the chances of getting are very slim. saying that men are not slated for sleeping round is untrue. why is it then that women sleep around and call it liberating and when men do the same we get refered to as “a pig”? as if its disrespectful to admit that we have needs. men are conditioned to keep things bottled up and women are always turned off when we cry. thats a fact. equality can only be a door that swings both ways. Many of us guys do often feel like the weaker sex, believe me. we just know that its suicide to admit to it

]]> By: MR T http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2257 MR T Sun, 16 Nov 2008 14:36:31 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2257 it is not so easy. I do honor my live and so I honor hers! I honor her thoughts and decisions sometimes even over my own. Because I want,no I need to believe in the purity of her! Because I want to believe in the purity of my and of the soul. Soul of all human beings! I love her and I don't want to fuck with everybody. My point is,'I want just one person to believe in the same thing I do..in our love!!! Thats all. Call me naive,call me stupid or a wierdo but know that I don't call my self that way. I am a man and my decisions and my thoughts are something that is mine and only I got the patent for it. No got ,no religion,no society,no one else! Only me and my choice!There is no devil or God deciding for me. It's me and I want to do it my way! I'm just so terribly sorry that she did piss on me head :) And now I'm the idiot who's got to love her and carry her on my hands as a queen after there were guys fuckn her butt,mouth,pussy and I don't know what else did they do with her and I shall be acting like there was no such a thing!!! Thats more than stupidly ridiciolus. She is my little princes in white dress and I am the prince on white horse. Right it's all fkd up...wrong planet for me it is not so easy. I do honor my live and so I honor hers! I honor her thoughts and decisions sometimes even over my own. Because I want,no I need to believe in the purity of her! Because I want to believe in the purity of my and of the soul. Soul of all human beings! I love her and I don’t want to fuck with everybody. My point is,’I want just one person to believe in the same thing I do..in our love!!! Thats all. Call me naive,call me stupid or a wierdo but know that I don’t call my self that way. I am a man and my decisions and my thoughts are something that is mine and only I got the patent for it. No got ,no religion,no society,no one else! Only me and my choice!There is no devil or God deciding for me. It’s me and I want to do it my way! I’m just so terribly sorry that she did piss on me head :) And now I’m the idiot who’s got to love her and carry her on my hands as a queen after there were guys fuckn her butt,mouth,pussy and I don’t know what else did they do with her and I shall be acting like there was no such a thing!!! Thats more than stupidly ridiciolus.
She is my little princes in white dress and I am the prince on white horse. Right it’s all fkd up…wrong planet for me

]]> By: jasmine http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2256 jasmine Sun, 16 Nov 2008 14:20:22 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2256 I'm not whining. I'm just confused as to why it's seen as different for women than it is for men...your post totally misses the point anyway. Men shooting up offices - WTF?! 8O The point is that if men can go out & have multiple partners & not be slated for it...women should to. It'd save all the hassle of people cussing each other in the long run :) I’m not whining. I’m just confused as to why it’s seen as different for women than it is for men…your post totally misses the point anyway. Men shooting up offices - WTF?! 8O
The point is that if men can go out & have multiple partners & not be slated for it…women should to. It’d save all the hassle of people cussing each other in the long run :)

]]> By: MR T http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2255 MR T Sun, 16 Nov 2008 14:12:30 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2255 When it would be so easy. There are times I'm thinking about finishing it and finding me a young virgin that will love me regardless to how a prick I am or how I treat her. Because that's what seems to me my girlfriend is doing sometimes. Because she knows how hard is it to let go the person you loved as first! But on the other hand I'm afraid to be alone. By alone I don't mean to be wanking off in a small apartment :DD.No! I mean alone,somewhere ,anywhere on this planet without a person that understands me. Because what ever she does and however fuckdup past there is in our relationship,she still is one of few people on the earth I know that understands me......or maybe not. I am not shure about anything now. It's because shortly after we had our first sex she then out of sudden became unshure about us. Oh fk I'm so confused!!! It's like a worm eating my brain after it just renewed it self. I got that clear thought that I should leave that cunt and then there is that thought that she is just a little confused girl that loves me but it's just afraid of the world and the people. And these me against me thoughts are fighting each other. So in most of the cases I just let it go and forget about it. I don't know what is right or wrong anymore! And that is the problem. The problem is that I am looking on the world with her eyes and that allows me to get over situations like when she sleeps with another guy and me at the same time. And again...I can't believe that this is me writing this shit!!!Makes me wanna puke my life out of me! Jeez! And there's more. All of this is just a point of view. Polygami,monogami,oregami...it's just a game and depends on the society what rules the majority stand for. It automatically doesn't mean that whats good for the majority is good for me or for the game. It literary is just a point of view of anybody! Just look at the thought of free love. I think that it isn't that bad thought! Well at least when you are a guy who stands for this thought I believe you're about to live a long and happy life. Because I believe that guys die younger just because of that stress they got by thinking that their female is somewhere fucking another one!!! Thats all there! It is science! Thats why we die sooner then them! So in order to prevent me from dieing younger I should : stop smoking,stop drinking huge volumes of alcohol at a time,stop eating all that junk food and drinx - start eating healthy and natural food and of course according to my recent conclusion stop focusing on just one woman and being monogam and become a polygam or maybe even mix man to man relationships to it all. I mean why not? When we are questioning these days the spiritual and body purity of the two people at the point coming into a relationship and even during that relationship ,lets stand it all on the head! Lets put in question everything! Why shouldn't a woman have the right to have sex with enyone she wants? Right? My answer is ok, fine with me! When you want to have sex with anyone ..do it! Fine! But my opinion is,'I am not going to raise children with a whore,because I am not going to make one with a woman that behaved like a polygamic count. I am going to have sex with her(when that's what she obviously stands for even she says the opposite) and then when she says ''marry me and make me a child'' I will say Fuck You!And find me another polygamic female because obviously there are no other these days! Or look,I'll rather hook up with a guy who might not have titts and a pussy but atleast I'll find one who's got the same point of view on this rotten world :DDDD when that is not silly??? So if there is a girl or woman reading this, please now that there are men that don't won't you to have sex a lot and with anyone! There are men they want a cute and seriously monogamic girl waiting for the right guy!!! And they want a girl with moral fences,because when you get down on the guys who want fk you stright away and you do it for his eyes,butt or money, then the world is doomed !!! Howk! My world is damned! A she devil stole my heart and now I live without any sprinkle in my eyes. Like a puppet , like a zombie! Words are only words..the deed is what counts and that goes for women and men equal. Oh yes and too much TV fks it up as well! :cry: When it would be so easy. There are times I’m thinking about finishing it and finding me a young virgin that will love me regardless to how a prick I am or how I treat her. Because that’s what seems to me my girlfriend is doing sometimes. Because she knows how hard is it to let go the person you loved as first! But on the other hand I’m afraid to be alone. By alone I don’t mean to be wanking off in a small apartment :DD.No! I mean alone,somewhere ,anywhere on this planet without a person that understands me. Because what ever she does and however fuckdup past there is in our relationship,she still is one of few people on the earth I know that understands me……or maybe not. I am not shure about anything now. It’s because shortly after we had our first sex she then out of sudden became unshure about us. Oh fk I’m so confused!!! It’s like a worm eating my brain after it just renewed it self. I got that clear thought that I should leave that cunt and then there is that thought that she is just a little confused girl that loves me but it’s just afraid of the world and the people. And these me against me thoughts are fighting each other. So in most of the cases I just let it go and forget about it. I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore! And that is the problem. The problem is that I am looking on the world with her eyes and that allows me to get over situations like when she sleeps with another guy and me at the same time. And again…I can’t believe that this is me writing this shit!!!Makes me wanna puke my life out of me! Jeez!
And there’s more. All of this is just a point of view. Polygami,monogami,oregami…it’s just a game and depends on the society what rules the majority stand for. It automatically doesn’t mean that whats good for the majority is good for me or for the game. It literary is just a point of view of anybody! Just look at the thought of free love. I think that it isn’t that bad thought! Well at least when you are a guy who stands for this thought I believe you’re about to live a long and happy life. Because I believe that guys die younger just because of that stress they got by thinking that their female is somewhere fucking another one!!! Thats all there! It is science! Thats why we die sooner then them! So in order to prevent me from dieing younger I should : stop smoking,stop drinking huge volumes of alcohol at a time,stop eating all that junk food and drinx - start eating healthy and natural food and of course according to my recent conclusion stop focusing on just one woman and being monogam and become a polygam or maybe even mix man to man relationships to it all. I mean why not? When we are questioning these days the spiritual and body purity of the two people at the point coming into a relationship and even during that relationship ,lets stand it all on the head! Lets put in question everything! Why shouldn’t a woman have the right to have sex with enyone she wants? Right? My answer is ok, fine with me! When you want to have sex with anyone ..do it! Fine! But my opinion is,’I am not going to raise children with a whore,because I am not going to make one with a woman that behaved like a polygamic count. I am going to have sex with her(when that’s what she obviously stands for even she says the opposite) and then when she says ”marry me and make me a child” I will say Fuck You!And find me another polygamic female because obviously there are no other these days! Or look,I’ll rather hook up with a guy who might not have titts and a pussy but atleast I’ll find one who’s got the same point of view on this rotten world :DDDD when that is not silly???
So if there is a girl or woman reading this, please now that there are men that don’t won’t you to have sex a lot and with anyone! There are men they want a cute and seriously monogamic girl waiting for the right guy!!! And they want a girl with moral fences,because when you get down on the guys who want fk you stright away and you do it for his eyes,butt or money, then the world is doomed !!! Howk!
My world is damned! A she devil stole my heart and now I live without any sprinkle in my eyes. Like a puppet , like a zombie!
Words are only words..the deed is what counts and that goes for women and men equal. Oh yes and too much TV fks it up as well!
:cry:

]]> By: fella http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2254 fella Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:46:17 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2254 mate, i feel something for your story. its true we dont know for sure where the hell they've been. never. women lie to protect our pride. fair does if it aint your wish to go out and be a "stud". women seem to think that their companionship is enough for us but really, it's not. we need them to be honourable. ive been with my girlfriend just over a year but a month after we first started going out, she told my that she'd slept with one of my mates just before we got together. i know, it shouldnt really matter but it feels like a reflection on me that she didnt pick me first and to this day it still stings. you see, i do have a past with other women but i always make sure its dead and buried before seriously considering anyone. your girl juggling you with another guy just isnt on though mate. not one bit. her feelings of love may be genuine in her heart but it's not worth resenting her all this time and in turn, resenting yourself. you'll be hard pressed these days to find a woman deserving of a genuine guy like you. i dont think it would hurt you though to go date a little. my relationship's in the shit for various other reasons. i always have a foot out the door and shes too neurotic and complains too much. they do your head in dont they? she has experience with other people and you dont. in my opinion, thats always a recipe for disaster anyway. bottom line. you should get rid mate, i feel something for your story. its true we dont know for sure where the hell they’ve been. never. women lie to protect our pride. fair does if it aint your wish to go out and be a “stud”. women seem to think that their companionship is enough for us but really, it’s not. we need them to be honourable. ive been with my girlfriend just over a year but a month after we first started going out, she told my that she’d slept with one of my mates just before we got together. i know, it shouldnt really matter but it feels like a reflection on me that she didnt pick me first and to this day it still stings. you see, i do have a past with other women but i always make sure its dead and buried before seriously considering anyone. your girl juggling you with another guy just isnt on though mate. not one bit. her feelings of love may be genuine in her heart but it’s not worth resenting her all this time and in turn, resenting yourself. you’ll be hard pressed these days to find a woman deserving of a genuine guy like you. i dont think it would hurt you though to go date a little. my relationship’s in the shit for various other reasons. i always have a foot out the door and shes too neurotic and complains too much. they do your head in dont they? she has experience with other people and you dont. in my opinion, thats always a recipe for disaster anyway. bottom line. you should get rid

]]> By: fella http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2253 fella Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:15:16 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2253 typical woman. whining on about your equal rights. i'm so pissed off right now that i'm sitting here at daft oclock looking for a little affimation. you can laugh. im a man. im insecure, yes. is that ok with you? dont you dare dismiss our challenge with "and what"? you have no fucking clue, because you were fortunate enough to be born with a vagina to abuse at will. when a longterm engagement with a woman comes to pass, a man must withdraw from social activity. if he doesn't allow himself time, he will almost certainly incurr further bereavement upon himself. meanwhile, she's out settling her bereavement in town exibiting herself with her sexy new outfit. ends up in bed with some gobshite she doesnt know and then has the audacity to say that a man put her there and it's his fault. why do we have to be responsible for everything? we have enough to deal with being strong and sensitive, hard but tender, bold but considerate, daring but still compromising. you'll never know how tough it is to balance all of those considerations. thats why you never hear about women shooting up post offices. thats why so many young men are killing themselves. if we cant find the strength to "be a man" (whatever the fuck that's supposed to mean) then you simply get left for dead. you're not the ones killing yourselves. dont talk to me about whats fair!ifou want to be treated better then look closer at the guy in the corner and stop sitting on the first cock who knew all the slick phrases and timberlake poses typical woman. whining on about your equal rights. i’m so pissed off right now that i’m sitting here at daft oclock looking for a little affimation. you can laugh. im a man. im insecure, yes. is that ok with you? dont you dare dismiss our challenge with “and what”? you have no fucking clue, because you were fortunate enough to be born with a vagina to abuse at will. when a longterm engagement with a woman comes to pass, a man must withdraw from social activity. if he doesn’t allow himself time, he will almost certainly incurr further bereavement upon himself. meanwhile, she’s out settling her bereavement in town exibiting herself with her sexy new outfit. ends up in bed with some gobshite she doesnt know and then has the audacity to say that a man put her there and it’s his fault. why do we have to be responsible for everything? we have enough to deal with being strong and sensitive, hard but tender, bold but considerate, daring but still compromising. you’ll never know how tough it is to balance all of those considerations. thats why you never hear about women shooting up post offices. thats why so many young men are killing themselves. if we cant find the strength to “be a man” (whatever the fuck that’s supposed to mean) then you simply get left for dead. you’re not the ones killing yourselves. dont talk to me about whats fair!ifou want to be treated better then look closer at the guy in the corner and stop sitting on the first cock who knew all the slick phrases and timberlake poses

]]> By: MR T http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2252 MR T Sat, 15 Nov 2008 03:37:36 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2252 Riiiight. I am together with my girlfriend now for about a year and half. When we did get together she was still with another guy. I told her that I'm not having sex with her until she finishes that relationship. Well don't get me wrong I knew her much longer than that guy and I was pretty sure that she was the one-the first one! What happened? She didn't finish it even when she told me that she did.And now after a year and a half I've found out that she had slept with him many more times after she had sex with me.We had a long distance relationship at first and she wasn't still sure about it so it was a bit weird at the beginning. But she told me that she did quit with him,then under the weight of evidence she admitted she did not tell him because the guy had mental problems..but she is not seeing him anymore and that she will tell him.then later she did quit it and we did get really together and moved together in. But at that time I didn't know that she slept with him. It just happened accidently that I've found bullet proof evidence now. And I'm really down about it. I just don't know what to think. Is she a whore because of that? I mean she tells me that she loves me ,but she told me many things before that weren't true. And I cannot ask her anything about that because it's a past we already did get over . But now after knowing this I feel used and betrayed and as a looser. I am an honest man and always fair with everyone. I did many times really huge steps just to save our relationship from big crisis and treated her as a queen and she treated me as a piece of shit.She was my first and I just don't want to make records in women counting on my penis. But she was fucking him,then me and then him and then me.How can I be now ever shore that she ain't doing somebody else when she lied to me that time with such an ease!?! Or maybe that she left him because she knew I'm the one and her behavior was just because she's a confused girl ? And on the first time we've had sex she surprised me with saying we don't need any protection.I was new in the field so I didn't know what exactly does she mean. Now I now,that she didn't use any protection ,just me finishing out...I know she is a good girl..no actually I don't know anything about her former live just what's she told me.Oh jeez I thing I should just kill my self after killing her. Is there anyone who could possibly give me some wise words into my deluded mind? please? I don't wanna feel like a victim nor to become a ''stud''. It's all so fkn confusing I just want somebody to believe in,to love and to share life's ways. . .I just can't believe that this is my story!? :((( Riiiight.
I am together with my girlfriend now for about a year and half. When we did get together she was still with another guy. I told her that I’m not having sex with her until she finishes that relationship. Well don’t get me wrong I knew her much longer than that guy and I was pretty sure that she was the one-the first one! What happened? She didn’t finish it even when she told me that she did.And now after a year and a half I’ve found out that she had slept with him many more times after she had sex with me.We had a long distance relationship at first and she wasn’t still sure about it so it was a bit weird at the beginning. But she told me that she did quit with him,then under the weight of evidence she admitted she did not tell him because the guy had mental problems..but she is not seeing him anymore and that she will tell him.then later she did quit it and we did get really together and moved together in. But at that time I didn’t know that she slept with him. It just happened accidently that I’ve found bullet proof evidence now. And I’m really down about it. I just don’t know what to think. Is she a whore because of that? I mean she tells me that she loves me ,but she told me many things before that weren’t true. And I cannot ask her anything about that because it’s a past we already did get over . But now after knowing this I feel used and betrayed and as a looser. I am an honest man and always fair with everyone. I did many times really huge steps just to save our relationship from big crisis and treated her as a queen and she treated me as a piece of shit.She was my first and I just don’t want to make records in women counting on my penis. But she was fucking him,then me and then him and then me.How can I be now ever shore that she ain’t doing somebody else when she lied to me that time with such an ease!?! Or maybe that she left him because she knew I’m the one and her behavior was just because she’s a confused girl ? And on the first time we’ve had sex she surprised me with saying we don’t need any protection.I was new in the field so I didn’t know what exactly does she mean. Now I now,that she didn’t use any protection ,just me finishing out…I know she is a good girl..no actually I don’t know anything about her former live just what’s she told me.Oh jeez I thing I should just kill my self after killing her. Is there anyone who could possibly give me some wise words into my deluded mind? please? I don’t wanna feel like a victim nor to become a ‘’stud”. It’s all so fkn confusing I just want somebody to believe in,to love and to share life’s ways. . .I just can’t believe that this is my story!? :(((

]]> By: jasmine http://therawness.com/why-its-worse-for-women-to-sleep-around/#comment-2239 jasmine Mon, 10 Nov 2008 21:08:06 +0000 http://therawness.com/?p=4#comment-2239 Double standards in one word: suck. I myself have had quite a few sex partners, and yes, I've been slated (mostly by guys) for it. However, when guys hit on every girl in sight, when they sleep with as many girls as possible, when they flirt with every girl that walks their way...nobody bats an eyelash. Even if he is called a playa by his friends, it's not in a bad way...it's actually seen as a good thing! If a girl were to do that she'd be seen as "easy" or a "slut". Where's the sense in that? "men have evolutionary reasons to be programmed to sleep around" Oh give me a break! I know many guys who are still virgins and waiting until marriage. I also know guys who are in relationships and who have not cheated/slept around. That excuse is so stupid it doesn't even deserve a counter attack. "women do more harm by sleeping around than men do" Do woman get pregnant every time they have sex? I don't think so. Why should a woman practising safe sex (e.g pills/condoms) still be called a slut after having multiple sex partners even if she hasn't become pregnant? Guys can pass on a series of STD's or even HIV (yes, I know women can to, but that's not the point)...much worse than pregnancy, anyway! "sleeping around is easier for women" So that makes it ok? Because last time I checked, both men and women have sexual urges and needs. So it's 'harder' for you to find someone to sleep with...and what? Either way, you can still be having sex with a string of people or even paying for it. Forget the 'challenge' - sex is sex. Whether you're male or female there shouldn't be double standards. Double standards in one word: suck.
I myself have had quite a few sex partners, and yes, I’ve been slated (mostly by guys) for it. However, when guys hit on every girl in sight, when they sleep with as many girls as possible, when they flirt with every girl that walks their way…nobody bats an eyelash. Even if he is called a playa by his friends, it’s not in a bad way…it’s actually seen as a good thing! If a girl were to do that she’d be seen as “easy” or a “slut”. Where’s the sense in that?

“men have evolutionary reasons to be programmed to sleep around” Oh give me a break! I know many guys who are still virgins and waiting until marriage. I also know guys who are in relationships and who have not cheated/slept around. That excuse is so stupid it doesn’t even deserve a counter attack.

“women do more harm by sleeping around than men do” Do woman get pregnant every time they have sex? I don’t think so. Why should a woman practising safe sex (e.g pills/condoms) still be called a slut after having multiple sex partners even if she hasn’t become pregnant? Guys can pass on a series of STD’s or even HIV (yes, I know women can to, but that’s not the point)…much worse than pregnancy, anyway!

“sleeping around is easier for women” So that makes it ok? Because last time I checked, both men and women have sexual urges and needs. So it’s ‘harder’ for you to find someone to sleep with…and what? Either way, you can still be having sex with a string of people or even paying for it. Forget the ‘challenge’ - sex is sex. Whether you’re male or female there shouldn’t be double standards.

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