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The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha, Part 5

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 3.5
The Interlude
Part 4

So we’ve discussed the transitions from despotism and polygamy to democracy and monogamy, from a system with no checks and balances on alphadom to one that has institutionalized alpha proxies dedicated to policing alphadom, all of which came about thanks to the increased voice of the lower-status male.

But what about modern feminism? Where does that come into play?

To understand feminism how feminism came about, you have to understand two things: first, the difference between how females deal with high-status male versus how they deal with low-status males, and second, who feminism actually benefits.

Women are much better on average at nonviolent manipulation of men than vice versa. Although the word manipulation has negative connotations, I’m using the word in the least judgmental way possible. Nonviolent manipulation means to mold, control or influence through powers of persuasion without the threat of physical violence. Women had to developed this skill through eons of evolution because guys throughout history could kick their asses, kill them and rape them at will if they wanted.  Nonviolent manipulation is a skill they needed to develop to compensate for other weaknesses.

Women developed survival strategies throughout history like manipulating men and testing men for strength in order to choose providers of either resources or good genes.  Women manipulate and test high-status men differently than they do low-status men, though.  For example, there have been times when I’ve met women and had them eating out of my hand.  These same women would have some low-status guy without game in their life, often a boyfriend even, who they would treat like crap. Sometimes they’d call the guy right in front of me to punk him while I was in the background.  Or we’d be out and some low-status guy would approach, and she’d treat him like crap then make him buy her a drink, which she’d promptly give to me.

This same exact chick who was flippant, emasculating and disrespectful when dealing with a low-status guy could turn around and become demure, ego-boosting and respectful when being romanced by me, who she perceived as high-status. This didn’t mean she wasn’t actively manipulating and testing me for strength too, but that she did it more subtly and in a passive way that satisfied my ego.

When dealing with a low-status weaker guy, a woman is going to try to openly compete to be the “head” of the relationship.  Her testing and power plays will come in the form of open disrespect.  Her manipulation will be blatant and emasculating.  Much of this comes from perceived necessity though, because she instinctively distrusts the low-status man to provide and lead. Because he has more to prove, she’s going to test and manipulate twice as hard.  When dealing with a high-status stronger man however, the woman allows him to be the head and believe himself to be in charge, but she fight to become the “neck” that turns the head toward where she wants it to focus.

All of this applies on a macro-level also.  Think of the evolution of society that I described throughout this series.  In more primal, traditional societies where high-status men monopolized most of the mating options and made life miserable for low-status men, women as a whole predominately manipulated by acting demure, ego-boosting and respectful of men.  However, because of the collective rise of monogamy and the creation of the Leviathan I described in the last installment, western women today are forced on average to deal much more with lower-status men, and therefore as a group modern women manipulate by being more flippant, emasculating and disrespectful. Even today in societies that are democratic and monogamous, if there is not a good system of alpha proxies and renegade alpha suppression the women will still choose to manipulate in a more passive, traditional conservative way than an active, progressive liberal way.

So is it ultimately better for a woman to be active and progressive (the head) or passive and traditional (the neck)?  In many ways the latter’s a better strategy because it allows the man believes himself to be in charge, therefore he doesn’t bother fighting back or changing anything because the poor chump thinks he’s winning.  In addition, he bears the full responsibility for all the finances and for all decisions and takes full blame if they don’t work out.  This system gives women a lot of power with much less responsibility.  To be openly recognized as the head or equal partner of the relationship or household means having responsibilities and accountability, two things women utterly hate.

That’s right, women hate accountability and bearing the brunt of responsibility.  Women like to be recognized as being capable of doing anything a man can.  They like to be recognized as having the ability to be just as skilled as a man and worthy of the same rights and perks as a man.  What they don’t like though is being required to share the same responsibilities and duties as a man, except when it’s convenient (which is why they want to join the military but don’t like the idea of, you know, going all commando on the front lines of combat).

For example, ladies out there tell the truth on this one: do you or do you not hate when a man, in response to the question “What do you want to do?” responds with “I don’t know, what do you want to do?”  Women, even if they are openly indecisive and wishy-washy about a topic, hate when the men they are dealing with act indecisive and wishy-washy about the very same topic within the very same conversation.

Why do they have a right to be indecisive on a topic but judge a man harshly for being indecisive about the exact same topic during the same conversation?  It’s because despite modern feminist dogma, they still instinctively resent men who put them in a position where they have to take responsibility and ultimate accountability for decisionmaking.  They want to be recognized as capable of making decisions for themselves and want to reserve the right to make decisions for themselves, but they don’t want the actual obligation of making decisions if they can avoid it.  If they can avoid the responsibility and accountability of such decisionmaking, they’ll always take it. This is why women find leadership qualities to be such a turn-on in men and why watching a group of women try to agree on any decision can take so long that it’s maddening.

So if women don’t really like the responsibility and accountability that comes with being in charge and making decisions, why is modern feminism such a strong force in the developed West?

The key to understanding the answer is to reevaluate how you think of power.  A popular tenet of modern feminism is that women were historically deprived of power before they fought for their rights through feminism.  This isn’t true.  Women have always had power.  Arguably they’ve even secretly had more power than men.  It wasn’t power women lacked before feminism, it was authority.  Men are very simplistic and linear and often conflate power with authority.  Although authority is a form of power, not all power is necessarily a form of authority, as Chinweizu points out in Anatomy of Female Power:

In any case, even if no “strictly matriarchal society” ever existed, that would not imply that female power did not exist. Authority is only one of the many types of power; and the wielding of authority is not necessary for the exercise of many types of power. Power without authority is neither unknown nor rare, as is recognized when it is said that someone is “the power behind the throne”…

…If the essence of power is the ability to get what one wants, then women are far from powerless. Women do get, and always did get, what they want – be it riches, or thrones, or the head of John the Baptist, or routine exemption from hardships and risks which their men folk are obliged to endure. That women operate by methods which often differ from those available to men does not in any way mean that women are bereft of power.

If women are not powerless, are they, perhaps, less powerful than men? Some feminists find it in their interest to have the world believe this. And for proof they point to the public structures of political, economic and cultural power, and show that these are almost exclusively occupied by men. But does that prove what they aim to prove? Not at all! All it shows is that in the public structures, which form the domain of male power, women are not well represented. If this under-representation is to prove that women are less powerful than men, it would need to be also true that those public structures exhaust the modes and centers of power in society. Alas, for feminist claims, they do not; for there indeed are other modes and centres of power which women monopolize. Such are the subjects of this inquiry.

In those centres, women control scarce resources, commodities and opportunities; and they distribute them. They exercise power through education, propaganda, directives, suggestions, rewards and punishments.  They wield instruments of persuasion and coercion.

As this inquiry shall show, matriarchs (who wield female power) and matriarchy (an organized structure or institution for the exercise of female power) do exist, indeed have always existed. The power they wield is neither illusory nor a joke. Furthermore, in human society, it is not male power but female power which is supreme. Or rather, to change the imagery, however great male power may be, it is to female power what that one-seventh of an iceberg which is visible above water is to the six-sevenths which lies below the water line. .

As we shall see, the male modes of power are actually tributary to the female modes, in as much as the fruits of male power are poured at the feet of women through the workings of female power. That men seek wealth, power, status and fame for the love of women is widely attested to by knowledgeable commentators. According to Esther Vilar: “Man’s work is only done with woman in view”…

From his own experience, Aristotle Onassis, an ambitious and very successful businessman of this 20th century, confirms this when he declared: “If women didn’t exist all the money in the world would have no meaning” …

Moreover, male preoccupation with wealth, power, fame and status in order to win the love of women is quite natural, being rooted in the animal origins of humanity…

If the natural goal of male power is to pay tribute to women, then male power is naturally tributary to female power. If, however powerful a man may be, his power is used to serve the women in his life, that would make dubious the notion that men are masters over women. Because every man has as boss his wife, or his mother, or some other woman in his life, men may rule the world, but women rule the men who rule the world. Thus, contrary to appearances, woman is boss, the overall boss, of the world.

Chinweizu then goes further into breaking down the three phases and five pillars of female power, emphasis added by me:

Female power exists; it hangs over every man like a ubiquitous shadow.  Indeed, the life cycle of man, from cradle to grave, may be divided into three phases, each of which is defined by the form of female power which dominates him: mother power, bridepower, or wifepower.

From birth to puberty, he is ruled by motherpower, as exercised over him by his one and only “mummy dearest”. Then he passes into the territory of bridepower, as exercised over him by his bride-to-be, that cuddlesome and tender wench he feels he cannot live without. This phase lasts from puberty to that wedding day when the last of his potential brides finally makes herself his wife. He then passes into the domain of -wifepower, as exercised over him by his own resident matriarch, alias his darling wife. This phase lasts till he is either divorced, widowed or dead.

In each phase, female power is established over him through his peculiar weakness in that stage of his life. Motherpower is established over him while he is a helpless infant. Bridepower holds sway over him through his great need for a womb in which to procreate; if he didn’t feel this need, he wouldn’t put himself into the power of any owner of a womb. Wifepower is established over him through his craving to appear as lord and master of some woman’s nest; should he dispense with this vanity, not even the co-producer of his child could hold him in her nest and rule him.

There are five conditions which enable women to get what they want from men: women’s control of the womb; women’s control of the kitchen; women’s control of the cradle; the psychological immaturity of man relative to woman; and man’s tendency to be deranged by his own excited penis. These conditions are the five pillars of female power; they are decisive for its dominance over male power. Though each is recognized in popular jokes and sayings, their collective significance is rarely noted.

If traditional male power is can be summed up as authority and all it’s forms (political, financial, physical, etc.), traditional female power – the three forms and five pillars Chinweizu describes above? – can be summed up by the term pussy powerPussy power trumps everything. Properly utilized, pussy power is the most powerful weapon on the planet.  Even major uberalphas like Julius Caesar and Marc Antony, when all else failed to bring them down, fell to it when wielded by a master practitioner like Cleopatra. Iggy Pop even made a song in tribute to Pussy Power:

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Before modern feminism, low-status women were women who fell into two categories.

  1. women who for some reason or another couldn’t utilize the traditional weapons of female power.  They were deficient in either mother power, bridepower and/or wifepower because they can’t effectively use the the five pillars of female power.  Examples are ugly women, fat women, socially immature awkward women, older women who were once attractive but were now past their prime beauty and reproductive years, old maids, widows, divorcees, etc.
  2. women who could but didn’t want to rely on the traditional weapons of female power.  This included lesbians and other types of women who wanted to be men or at least be free to behave like them and women who resented men and were not willing to settle for the traditional female game of being holding the power secretly but letting men believe they were the ones actually holding the power.  They weren’t satisfied with the power that came from being the neck, they wanted the recognition and authority that came with being the head.  They didn’t want to carry on the charade of being subservient and inferior to men.

Thus modern feminism was not the quest for oppressed, powerless women as a whole to gain equality.  Modern feminism was actually the quest of a specific subset of low-status women to gain access to authority – the traditional mode of male power – because they couldn’t or by choice wouldn’t rely solely on traditional modes of female power – pussy power. The low-status women who were were unattractive, unmarried and/or not mothers wanted access to the male form of power – authority – to compensate for lacking pussy power.  These are the types of feminists who bitch about women being objectified in the media, because they are too ugly or old to profit from showcasing themselves sexually. (You rarely see hot, young women bitch about objectification for example unless they’ve been indoctrinated by one of these old or ugly feminists at some point, usually at university.  They’re too busy using their looks to get what they want).

The women who were low-status by choice like open lesbians and women who disdained marriage also saw the benefit in gaining access to authority because they found using pussy power against men personally distasteful.  Together these two types of women eventually recruited a third type of woman, the one who gave them the most leverage, the high-status women who did have access to traditional modes of female power – pussy power – but were so bored and/or greedy they decided to get access to authority – the traditionally male form of power – as well.

Chinweizu also builds on this:

To help us assess feminism, we ought to note that, in their attitudes to men, there are three basic types of women: the matriarchists, the tomboys and the termagants. A matriarchist is a woman who believes that a man’s natural or god-ordained role in life is to serve some matriarch or married mother; and that the best way to get full service out of him is to make him think that he is his matriarch’s boss. A tomboy is a woman who would rather be a man. A termagant is a woman, whether tomboy or quasi-matriarchist, who insists on showing her man that she, not he, is boss; she therefore takes sadistic pleasure in harassing and bossing men.

Most women, down through history, have been matriarchist. Tomboys there have always been, but most, at puberty, reconciled themselves to the matriarchist social arrangements which suited the overwhelming majority of women. Termagants, the man-hating, temperamental misfits in the matriarchist paradise, there have always been. Incensed by the facade of patriarchy, they would vent on the hapless men around them their resentment of the matriarchist requirement that women make believe that they are ruled by men.

Feminism is a movement of bored matriarchists, frustrated tomboys and natural termagants; each of these types has its reasons for being discontented in the matriarchist paradise that is woman’s traditional world. Indeed, the career of post WWII feminism may be summarized as follows:

Bored matriarchists (like Betty Friedan) and frustrated tomboys (like Simone de Beauvoir) kicked it off;
Termagants (like Andrea Dworkin) made a public nuisance of it;
Satisfied matriarchists (like Phyllis Schlafly) oppose it;
Non-militant tomboys (the female yuppies) have quietly profited from it.

Friedanite feminism began by giving public voice to the craving by bored, wealthy, suburban American housewives for “something more than my husband and my children and my home.” Much of feminism has been inspired by this desire for something better than the matriarchist paradise; however, feminists find it politically expedient to present their aggrandizing demands in the language of liberation from oppression.  But it is hard, without standing the word “oppression” on its head, to fathom how their boredom, an affliction of the leisured and the idle rich, can be taken as a product of oppression. It takes Orwellian doublespeak to say that such a wife is oppressed by the husband whose income makes possible her leisured life. And if the idle rich are oppressed, then what are slaves, peons, and the like?

What Friedanite feminism proves is that what to most women is paradise, to some women is hell; that any paradise can bore some to rebellion…

Anyway, however dubious the “oppressed” status of Friendanite feminists was, once their banner was unfurled, tomboys and termagants were powerfully drawn to it. Under the banner of feminism, the militant tomboy, who would rather be a man, vents her frustration on men instead of appealing to god or the surgeon for a sex change. Under thebanner of feminism, the non-militant tomboy goes on to become a yuppie, a business or political entrepreneur, glad for a social climate in which, when she plays male roles, she encounters less resistance than previous generations of tomboys did. She goes into previously all-male fields, and still uses to full advantage all the skills and weapons of female power.

The termagant (the shrew, scold and harridan of old) is a misandrous sadist whose greatest pleasures come from man-baiting and man-bashing. She resents the matriarchist code which would have her
pretend that she is not boss to her man. Under the banner of feminism she can fully blossom. The termagant now carries on her man-harassing and man-bossing without restraint, battering a man’s ears with blows from her tongue without fear of retaliation by blows from his fist. The termagant claims for herself a tyrant’s absolute freedom of conduct and would punish any reaction, however natural, she provokes from men.

She is the type of woman who would wear a miniskirt without panties, a see-through blouse Without bras, and swing her legs and wiggle her arse as she parades up and down the street, and yet insist that no man should get excited by her provocative sexual display. Any man who whistles at the sight is berated for male chauvinism. She would put out all male eyes with white-hot iron spits so they would not subject the naked female to “the male gaze”. She is so outraged by male energy and exhuberance that she would have all males between 15 and 35 put in prison, Just to spare women their attentions.  If she flirts and teases and leads an adolescent boy on, well beyond the limits of his self-control and he rapes her, she would demand that he be hanged. The only males she would have in the world are lobotomized robots and enervated poodles, all at her beck and call. Under the guise of “radical feminism”, some termagants, in their utter misandry, have retreated into lesbian ghettos, and from there attack, as traitors to womankind, those other women who are heterosexual and who do not totally refrain from social and sexual intercourse with men. Under the banner of feminism, all this is treated as legitimate human behaviour.

The matriarchist – as the nest-queen who happily trams, rules and enjoys the income of the male head of her house – is largely unpersuaded by feminist demands for an equality which would end her privileges.  As the prime beneficiaries. of the system which feminists would dismantle, the quiet army of satisfied matriarchists is the great immovable rock upon which the tidal wave of feminism spends its fury.

Though feminism parades itself as a revolt agamst the domination of women by men, it is in fact a revolt by some tomboys agamst some of women’s privileges within the matriarchist paradise, and a revolt by termagants against the matriarchist restraints on their freedom to tyrannize males.  However, despite basing their campaign on the principle of gender equality, only a few feminists, a rare few who recognize a need for consistency and fairness, go so far as to accept that the equality they demand must apply also in the trenches, battlefields, mines and other high risk and strenuous areas of life. For the rest, their egalitarian clamour is simply a ruse, and they scheme to head men off from insisting on its full scale implementation.

Most men did not see feminist egalitarianism as the ruse that it was.  Of the few who did a mere handful glimpsed that feminism was not a revolt against oppression by men, but a clamour for additional privileges and opportunities for women. Such men began that men’s liberation movement which drew the ire of feminists like Carol Hanisch. However, lacking an analysis of female power, the men’s liberation movement did not get very far. Most men, being machos, were thoroughly indoctrinated in the view that men rule women, that human societies are strictly patriarchal: they did not, therefore, take seriously the idea that men needed liberating. At best, they saw men s liberation as a practical joke to annoy feminists.

Now here’s the irony of all this.

Many lower status men, or beta males as some like to call them, complain about modern feminism, but they were the ones who made this possible.  In societies of despotic, uberalphas, would women take such a feminist stand?  In polygamous societies with no strong middle-class and no alpha proxies to suppress renegade alpha males, would women take such a feminist stand?  No.  In those societies women choose passive and discrete manipulation, prefer to be the neck rather than the head and rely mostly on pussy power (which can be broken down further into mother power, bride power and wife power).  Only in a society where lower-status men and beta males have a strong voice would women take such  feminist stand, because women know such men are often needy, eager to provide and easy to dominate and openly and actively manipulate.  Only in societies of empowered beta males can women as a whole make a play at being the head as well as the neck and in gaining authority power in addition to pussy power.

Lower-status or beta males, being clueless about female psychology, just gave and gave to women until it backfired on them.  Before beta males reading this start pulling out their selfless martyr hat, this wasn’t out of valor or noble altruism but because of selfishness.  They thought it would get them laid more.  But once women got more and more male forms of  power, like authority in the forms of the political vote, they then used their political voice to alter the Leviathan accordingly so that they could make all men increasingly irrelevant.  No longer was the Leviathan just a force for renegade alpha suppression and empowerment of lower-status men.  Once women could vote the Leviathan was also a tool for female empowerment and freedom from dependence on men.

John Lott, Jr. did an op-ed in the Washington Times a few years ago describing how women’s suffrage  and increasing female voter rates from the 20s through the 60s caused the size of federal government to grow as well.  Now the Leviathan works not just to suppress renegade alphas but also to empower women with authority – the male form of power – in addition to the pussy power they already had access to.  Entitlements from the Great Society onward primarily benefit women and work to make men of all classes less necessary.  The female vote altered the Leviathan to make sure that women retain the benefits of the pussy power, gain the benefits of traditional male power to boot, yet remain shielded from much of the responsibilities that come along with traditional male power at the same time.  It’s the best of all worlds, a masterstroke by women if you will.

And you know what?  I can’t blame them.  If men are clueless enough to be so manipulated, women have to be fools not to go for it.  I tip my hat and pop my collar to them.  But for all these beta males who try to paint the modern world as some conspiracy by alpha males and women to keep them down, they have to realize much of this is their own plans backfiring.  Much of the emasculation of men started with the creation of a society dominated by alpha proxies that low-status men created to protect their interests against uberalphas.  And the rise of modern feminism can largely be attributed to the inability of these newly empowered needy and supplicating low-status men to understand female nature and resist their demands.

Next comes the final installment: the practical benefit of this entire series.

27 Responses to “The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha, Part 5”


  1. Excellent insights. I believe Chinweizu reaches too far in his conclusions of female power though. The five pillars he refers to (women’s control of the womb; kitchen; cradle; the psychological immaturity of man ; deranged by his own excited penis. ) are indeed influencial but not enough to assert dominance over the High Status Alpha. For his conclusion to be true it must be true for “A” female. If any particular female is rendered interchangeable her power is immediately undermined if not circumvented. Only two of the pillars, womb & cradle, are dependant on a specific female – womb, cradle. The rest are fungible. Taken a bit further, the two pillars which are dependant upon a specific female have diminished influence. Offspring does not carry the weight it used to in times past. Heirs are not important to securing and passing male power.

    This is evident in the actual interchangeability of females demonstrated in the real world. His status males for the mosty part retain their power while cycling through Alpha females. She has infuence only while she is present with the Alpha male. Her power fades upon her dismissal which call into question the extent of her power to begin with. The High Status Alpha male tolerates and allows her influence. This is less true for Beta males who also have access to female, but no so much as to render female power absolutely superior in their case either.

    Therefore, much as Alpha proxies mute much of the influence of male power upon females, so to the fungibility of the pillars of female power. Its naive to assume one is always superior to the other. A more relevant view considers the relevance, availability of male/female sources of power. As is Female power dominance is tenuous at best.

    It’s still a mans world.


  2. great post. i’m glad that you’ve kept your style of in-depth posts. they’re worth the time investment to read. male-female power dynamics are probably the engine that drives human evolution. unfortunately, so many men come to an understanding of this either late in life or never.

    i tend to think of these things like i think of the oil market. the oil-producing countries have this commodity that essentialy keeps the developed world running. we can’t live without it. at the same time, however, without the knowledge and the technical ability of the developed countries, oil is just some black crud sitting under the ground.

    it’s the same with women. their beauty, their affection and they’re ability to bring sexual satisfaction are all incredibly important to men. providing for their famalies, or the chance of getting a family, is what gets most men out of bed in the morning. at the same time, however, without men to appreciate them, do things for them and pay attention to them, female beauty is essentially worthless. look at how sexual marketplace dynamics change in unusual circumstances. for instanct, white women in asian countries find themselves completely at a loss because the white men go after the asian women but the white women are rarely attracted to the asian men. compare that to the entitled behavior of women in a situation where eligible men far outnumber eligible men. anybody ever been to alaska?
    .-= j r´s last blog ..“If you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face—forever.” =-.


  3. great post. i’m glad that you’ve kept your style of in-depth posts. they’re worth the time investment to read.

    HA. Sadly this actually WAS an edited down post. I originally had enough material written to create TWO blog posts. :)


  4. All I have to add about pussy power is this:

    If prostitution is truly the world’s oldest profession, then pussy has to be the world’s oldest and most consistently demanded commodity.


  5. Feminism has reared its ugly head in the classroom most of all. not only that young men are underachieving in the classroom compares to girls, but the enormous rise in sexual abuse and manipulation of young teen boys by female teachers and their lack of true punishment for it.


  6. Mr. T,
    I can’t believe only 5 comments! This essay is nearly the greatest I’ve read. I like all your writing, but you’ve really come home here. You say above that you condensed this piece. If so, the effort was well worthwhile, because you’ve polished a gem, and I think the present length is perfect.

    Your analysis perfectly mirrors my experience with women and feminism. I am 50 years old [ack!], married for the second time. My entire adult life has been a struggle to learn combat with women, to overcome my natural gentleness and naivete. I’ve succeeded with many women, and smashed my face against the power struggle that inevitably followed.

    In my first marriage, I was a good feminist tool all the way. My wife did not take my name. We did not share bank accounts; we lived much like roommates in legal and financial matters. She pretended to like this, and I thought [oh pity me] that I had avoided the tension of traditional male/female roles. You might anticipate the way this ended: she humiliated me constantly for making little money, and even hinted that I should slap her around. This was so contradictory and downright insane, I couldn’t process it. Toward the end her behavior escalated to bizarre, dangerous heights, so I left her.

    I had eight years to play around. I had many adventures, but tired quickly of the drama and wanted to have a child. By the time I married again, I was a solid, middle class guy, quite wealthy in comparison to my previous married life. Wife #2 has not earned a dollar since I met her. If our situation were reversed, I would think long and hard before fighting my provider, but Wife #2 does not hesitate. She takes good care of our son, and is generally pleasant and compliant–so long as her protected life is not threatened. Right now we’re in a conflict, and she’s getting hysterical. In most situations, I make the decisions, and ignore her complaints. Women are big on complaining about the actions of others. As you point out, responsibility is anathema to women.

    Conclusion: Love IS war. You’ll only keep the soft, sweet part of women if you’re constantly on the alert. You must be prepared to fight for every inch of your territory, both directly and indirectly. I do not like this reality, so it took a long time to accept it. The sooner we do, the more we’ll get of what we want from women.

    Please post again ASAP. Your wisdom is of great value to me. Thank you for sharing it.


  7. BOOM! Roasted


  8. No matter how strong affirmative action/equal opportunity becomes, something tells me you’re never going to see many effective female executives, four-star military generals or heads of state. The natural female aversion from decision-making (which anyone willing to put emotions aside and observe can see) is just not conducive to success in those sorts of executive positions.

    Some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten on women and relationships was “just make a decision,” even when I wasn’t sure if it was the right one. Needless to say, my dating success improved tenfold since then.

    Finally, has anyone else noticed that households that are run completely by women tend to be aimless and inefficient? I have a number of such households among my family and friends, where a woman calls all the shots (even where a man is present), and it seems as though those households are always engaged in some harebrained waste of time and energy, or some ridiculous whim of the female shotcaller. Rarely, if ever, are worthwhile goals every set and accomplished (e.g., inventive family vacations, attainment of substantial family assets, etc.), because no one is considering and directing ‘the big picture’ like an executive is supposed to.


  9. peep this MR.RickRaw

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTkp9UqVVHs


  10. This is evident in the actual interchangeability of females demonstrated in the real world. His status males for the mosty part retain their power while cycling through Alpha females. She has infuence only while she is present with the Alpha male. Her power fades upon her dismissal which call into question the extent of her power to begin with. The High Status Alpha male tolerates and allows her influence.

    Women who can easily be tossed to the side like this then are not truly high-status women, they don’t play the game at the right level. A woman who is a master at playing the traditional female power game at a high level makes sure to get the bridepower of relationship and sexual attractiveness, the wife power of the marriage certificate and years of marriage and the motherpower that comes from mothering his kids. At that point, whether he cheats or not, she still has her hooks in him. Either he won’t ever leave her for his jumpoffs, or if he does leave, he’ll be made to pay big-time and support her and the kids for life. She can get access to his resources for the rest of her life until she can find another man to marry and share his resources with her. Not a bad deal.

    Also, the women who dominate the man are not limited to the women he dates. Don’t forget about the mother of the man. The deification and devotion in our world to mothers is practically a male cult.


  11. Archduke, great video but I already beat you to it:

    http://therawness.com/wanna-get-depressed/


  12. Some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten on women and relationships was “just make a decision,” even when I wasn’t sure if it was the right one. Needless to say, my dating success improved tenfold since then.

    Yeah, I mentioned that here.

    http://therawness.com/becoming.....an-part-2/

    It really does change everything in your relationships when you start putting it into action.


  13. Outstanding work. You should make a more permanant link easily seen from the front page so these posts don’t get pushed down and then fade.


  14. Yes, feminism has been a coup for women who have never had it better than they have today and while beta males argue about how it has disenfranchised them they’ve yet to realize that all political systems are meant to do so. The illusion that average man has fallen for is that democratic regimes imbue them with political power. Nonsense. Government is an alpha proxy but it is a proxy that does not eradicate the natural tendency toward the primitive model of human organization. Elites monopolize wealth, resources, and power and the average man gets to pay for it.


  15. “Pussy power trumps everything. Properly utilized, pussy power is the most powerful weapon on the planet. ”

    In the last man standing, the sheriff said to the character played by bruce willis… “I have found the chink in ur armour. It’s the skirt.” It almost did too.


  16. ”Before beta males reading this start pulling out their selfless martyr hat, this wasn’t out of valor or noble altruism but because of selfishness. They thought it would get them laid more.”

    It must certainly have been a major force behind that support, but your one-liner orientation can turn out a bit ridicules at times. Did the white people who supported the civil rights movement just want to bang black woman? Are those in favor of gay marriage simply want a gay marriage themselves?

    We understand the evolutionary foundation of altruism/sympathy/empathy/guilt etc now, and it’s not limited to just get chicks in bed – it’s the case with this ”empathic evolutionary backfire” for other groups, it’s the case for women as well, even though as I said trying to get laid undeniably played a big part the whole ”revolution”.

    And no, your ”I’ve already said those who have any objections to the accuracy of this are beta males so there HA” is not a defense against charges of inaccuracy.


  17. And no, your ”I’ve already said those who have any objections to the accuracy of this are beta males so there HA” is not a defense against charges of inaccuracy.

    I hope this line was a joke, because if you really think I’d resort to that type of cheap rebuttal it’s kind of insulting, dude.

    It must certainly have been a major force behind that support, but your one-liner orientation can turn out a bit ridicules at times. Did the white people who supported the civil rights movement just want to bang black woman? Are those in favor of gay marriage simply want a gay marriage themselves?

    I do generalize greatly, and yes there is more to it than just sex, but I do think sex was a huge, huge part of why men, especially beta males, supported modern feminism, and by modern feminism I mean the radical wave started in the 60s). A big reason I feel this way is simply because in all the reading and documentary watching I’ve done of 60s counterculture and free love, the firsthand participants in looking back say that guys were really into promoting feminism, free love and freedom from sexual standards for women because it gave them sexual benefits that previous generations of men couldn’t get without any of the responsibilities that came along with it. The boomer guys reminescing say this was a big motivator for them, the boomer women reminiscing also lament that in retrospect many of the guys were in it for the poon.

    Now as to your examples of blacks and gays, just because someone does something for one group for one reason doesn’t mean that’s their motivation for doing the same thing for every group. For example, when a girl tells me her single, straight male friend invites her out to eat and hang out every week, helps her when he has to move and calls her regularly and is her “best friend,” my first instinct is he’s trying to sleep with her and sex is his primary motivation. I don’t think most guys differ with me in coming to the same conclusion. Does that mean that when a straight guy does those exact same things for another guy and claims to be another guy’s “best friend,” do we similarly automatically assume he’s doing it for the same motivations: sex? No.

    My point being that admitting men have sex as a primary motivation in helping women with something does not mean we have to necessarily conclude sex is thus their primary motivation when helping ANYONE.


  18. Brilliant post!

    Chinweizu’s analysis matches up with some of the work that evolutionary psychologist Sarah Blaffer Hrdy has done. To quote blogger Justin Martyr:

    As Sarah Blaffer Hrdy points out in Mother Nature that the career versus children dilemma is hardwired into females. That’s because in historical times high-status females could use their power to get other females to provide child care from other female group members. That freed them up to spend more time gathering food. That made them healthier and their children healthier. In the modern world status-seeking behavior by females does not translate to increased reproductive success.

    However, both Chinweizu’s and Hrdy’s work call into question your assertion that feminists are only low status women. Some high status women prefer to get other women to take care of their children while they get more resources for them through gathering (among hunter gatherers) or their career (among modern women). Reminds me of all those high flying lawyer chicks who hire nannies.

    More here.


  19. Brilliant post!

    Chinweizu’s analysis matches up with some of the work that evolutionary psychologist Sarah Blaffer Hrdy has done. To quote blogger Justin Martyr:

    As Sarah Blaffer Hrdy points out in Mother Nature that the career versus children dilemma is hardwired into females. That’s because in historical times high-status females could use their power to get other females to provide child care from other female group members. That freed them up to spend more time gathering food. That made them healthier and their children healthier. In the modern world status-seeking behavior by females does not translate to increased reproductive success.

    However, both Chinweizu’s and Hrdy’s work call into question your assertion that feminists are only low status women. Some high status women prefer to get other women to take care of their children while they get more resources for them through gathering (among hunter gatherers) or their career (among modern women). Reminds me of all those high flying lawyer chicks who hire nannies.

    More here.
    .-= Thursday´s last blog ..Vajazzeled =-.


  20. If she flirts and teases and leads an adolescent boy on, well beyond the limits of his self-control and he rapes her, she would demand that he be hanged.

    As he should be. Or… yeah, let me guess: it’s not rape if the woman was flirting with you. Or if she made eye contact. Or if she was in the same room.


  21. Sorry, wasn’t reading you close enough.
    .-= Thursday´s last blog ..Vajazzeled =-.


  22. read the bible. I don’t believe any of this new modern feminist bullshit. There will never be a women who is alpha over me. Every time a dominate looking female, especially the younger ones, assumes she has the go ahead, I gladly go in front of her, tell her “I bet you thought I was going to let you go first,” then see how she reacts.
    Who gives a fuck if she makes more? If she hints at being the dominant one, I will gladly put her in her place. I purposely take my time when crossing the street in front of a blond bitch in a luxery car. I will never succomb to this feminst crap. Women came from a man’s rib and that is the way it always be.


  23. This was an insightful and useful post – thanks. I wonder how the key concepts can be turned into easily disseminated catchphrases and meme viruses. I like the money quote by Chinweizu

    “Feminism is a movement of bored matriarchists, frustrated tomboys and natural termagants; each of these types has its reasons for being discontented in the matriarchist paradise that is woman’s traditional world.”

    The key conceptual handles he uses are currently lacking in mainstream thought – the concept of the matriarchal power wielder (as distinct from matriarchal authority), the frustrated tomboy (a concept that is taboo as it implies a sexual dichotomy of power styles, and a female state of being that could be content without masculine authority), and the termagant – the bitch with an overarching desire to rule and subsume the will of all under the false guise of greater good.

    Those key concepts, built together into a worldview, are needed for men, in order for us to regain our balance of power. In order for us men to act cohesively in a culture wide way, we need to express these ideas in many catchy ways.


  24. Under the banner of feminism she can fully blossom. The termagant now carries on her man-harassing and man-bossing without restraint, battering a man’s ears with blows from her tongue without fear of retaliation by blows from his fist.


  25. I’d like to agree that I could tip my hat to the psycho bitches taking advantage of this time, but I can’t, dog. Feminism is having such a devestating effect on Western culture and it’s people that all it comes off as is irresponsible and myopic.

    Fortunately, men are learning, and it’s almost inevitable now that women will get theirs in the coming decade.


  26. Wow, this is the biggest bunch of bullshit I have ever heard. Are really trying to paint all women with the same brush based on your bad experiences or what? I mean, seriously: “responsibilities and accountability, two things women utterly hate.” Could you possibly make a worse blanket statement than that? How about, “responsibilities and accountability, two things blacks utterly hate”? Or “responsibilities and accountability, two things Christians utterly hate”? Can you not see how WRONG that is?

    According to you, there’d be no female doctors; kick-ass doctors like Dr. Lidia Soto — who volunteered and took a live grenade out of a woman’s jaw in the middle of an open field so it wouldn’t hurt bystanders or the hospital — are a myth.

    How about men that shirk their own responsibility or accountability? Those that lie or cheat, or run out on their wife, or abandon a woman that carries his child or spreads STDs because he doesn’t like condoms, or drink and drive then kill people? Based on your views, can we say all men utterly hate responsibility? No, because not all men are like that and neither are all woman, and it’s insulting to both sexes for you to think the worst of a group of people because of a few assholes.

    FFS don’t even get me started on all the other stereotypes — manipulative bitches, old hags, resentful lesbians, etc — you dragged up. What is it with people that think like this? Are they just so xenophobic that they are threatened by women or men that step outside the boundaries laid down by society? You certainly don’t have respect for anyone, that’s for sure; you claim women have power and then degrade that power by calling it “pussy power”.

    To “Anonymous” who said, “read the bible” and “Women came from a man’s rib and that is the way it always be.” [sic] Wow, how fucking ignorant are you? I mean, literally ignorant, in that you lack knowledge. You sound like you belong in a cult that thinks pants and rock music are sins. For one thing, I can’t believe you are trying to use the Bible to support your woman-hating views. Yeah, I read some where that there were actually people like you, but I didn’t really think people like you existed. You are a stain on intelligent, woman-respecting Christians everywhere. For another, so what if woman was supposedly born from a rib — man was made from dust! You were born from a woman just as Eve was made from man; does being born from a woman some how make you inferior or less human? Besides, in another account of Creation (Genesis 1:27) it says that both man and woman were created at the same time. Plus, Jesus welcomed both men and women as Disciples, which was an extremely radical move back then. And Apostle Paul notes, Galatians 3:28 – “There is neither … male nor female for all are one in Christ Jesus.” As for being so insecure in your relationship that you have to try to make her jealous by staring at a blonde… wow, what’s with that? Not to mention calling someone you don’t even know a “bitch.”

    To everyone else: You set up a straw man argument and then knock it down. Good for you. /Sarcasm.

    Do you not realize, or do you conveniently ignore, that Feminism comes in different flavors? It’s like Christianity: There’s radicals like the Westboro “Church” and the KKK and even the Flat-Earth Society, but most Christians are not insane nutjobs full of hate like that. You can not use the WBC to defame all Christians. Likewise, there ARE radical feminists that say retarded things, like that all consensual sex is rape, but they are far from most feminists that truly want equality for all, and that means no matter the gender or race or what have you. EG a man should not be emasculated just because he likes to cook, or does not like cars and machines, and that a father should have rights concerning his children. They do not hold women as morally superior, and they recognize that some women can be just as violent as some men: eg they try to spread the word that there ARE men that get raped, both by other men and by women, and that it is NOT okay to victim-blame anyone who has been sexually abused.

    Meanwhile, there are still people that really think, “it’s not rape if she can’t say no” (http://www.washingtoncitypaper.....e-rapists/) and those that are fanatically against birth control pills and morning after pills. These are reasons are feminism isn’t going away any time soon.


  27. Brilliant. Far more eloquent than I could say it (or did).

    The cushier the tribe of your own social contract, the less man-ness is permissible. If you live in Uganda, be all the man you want. U.S.? Nah. Such a large construct, dependent on so many to continually contribute their resources, and … consume. No chances taken to mess with any of their sheeps.

    My thoughts on all of this, in context of living it: http://www.cedonulli.com/the-alpha-male/