Why Black American Chicks Like Thugs

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I have to warn you, this is either going to be one of my weirdest posts, one of my most profound or both.  Even if it sounds really pseudoscientific and downright preposterous at [...]

Pimp Week 2: Iceberg Slim, Opening Scene Interpreted

This is a follow-up analysis post to this post, which VK, Des and Roissy did a ridiculously good job taking apart in the comments section. Maybe this one was too easy (or the commenters are just too damn good). Anyways, let me see if there’s anything left for me to add. To save you the [...]

Portraits in Charisma

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Pickup artists have the best definition for charisma that I think I’ve ever heard: Charisma is the ability to suck other people into your reality.  People enter into every interaction with a frame: for example a dominant frame, a submissive frame, [...]

Why You Can’t Trust People To Say What They Really Want

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I meet a lot of guys who complain about women claiming to like “nice guys” but actually preferring jerks. It’s a reassuring fiction that shields their egos, but it’s really not that simple. First off, these “nice guys” are rarely actually nice guys. After all, the only people they seem to be consistently [...]

Myth Of The Ghetto Alpha Male

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Ghetto men have a reputation for being tough guys, and to untrained eyes it may seem that the problems many ghetto guys have with violence and the legal system are a result of them being textbook alpha males letting their machismo and testosterone run wild. But I think it’s actually [...]