By that same logic, heterosexual men are the last people you should ask about what a man wants. Girls should just ask their female friends who deal with lots of men how they pull all those men and go along with that.

Don’t listen to what ANYBODY says out of their mouth. Don’t study what anybody does, because like T. says you might not have the same magnetic attractiveness they do or be able to pull it off the same.

The REAL other thing, beautiful women such as myself : ), get hated on all the time. All men have some kind of comeback for if you tell him you’re in a relationship or you don’t want to dance or you don’t drink. Or some kind of “I don’t really like you” persona they try to convey.If it’s an urban Black man, he wants me to know that golddiggers like me are a dime a dozen and he’s not the herb. I’ve never in my life asked a man for money or to be in his video or to introduce me to so and so but because of their perception without ever knowing me, there’s some kind mortal combat of macking he’s dragging me into. This could be a man that I wanted to try to talk to me, an asshole whose reputation precedes him, a “pimp” type who never stood a chance, whatever. I never understood it until I started reading this blog. Wow.

Second, because YOU think a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean she does. Most really good looking women have good looking moms, sisters, cousins, friends, whoever. Its been times when she’s been “the whole shit of the whole night” and others when her sister or her homegirl had dudes buying out the bar while 15 “producers” stalked her the whole night without buying one drink because they didn’t want her to think they were sweating her. A smooth compliment with no overtly sexual tinge that brings a smile to your face is a like 5000 cool points. It makes her feel good, she’ll like you for it and its a win-win.

Third, that Mr. Nice Guy is a myth. Or if he exists its in Cowlick, West Virginia somewhere. Nobody approaches a woman as Mr. Nice Guy. If he’s buying you drink after drink, putting you in a cab, treating all of your friends its a resource display to show you he’s got so much money. The men paying women “compliments” about how good they look are trying to appeal to her vanity to get sex. And we all know that. And those compliments are always more along the lines of “Damn shorty, you wearing the fuck out that dress.” rather than “I’d like to sit down with you, get to know your thought on politics and human evolution. You are the smartest, most spiritually attuned woman I’ve ever met. And I’d like you to meet my grandparents.” LOL.

Several and sundry. That’s how you build up your aura. The measure of a person is not how they treat their “betters” but even the most common person. You’re not just trying to talk yourself into being the Man, you actually have to be the Man. If you only do things for points or to try and impress, you’re a phony.

To me the sexiest man is the one that’s so confident, has so much swagger and is so dynamic, he’s self contained. He’s in the world but not of it. Thats godly.

So a fat chick needs a light, give her a light. Now, the next time she sees you with her smoking hot friend or co-worker, she’ll vouch for you “Entropy is mad cool.” as opposed to “That dude is a dickhead. He acts like you owe him a hard on because you’re walking down the street.”

I know “it depends” often sounds like a cop-out answer, but it really does depend.

Fantastic. It really is about the context. Even those who have never set foot inside a club and have no interest in those kinds of social circles know the “exclusivity” and “status” that these places convey.

I think that is why the “neg” seems so terrible and out of place in most cases. Often, it does not serve to increase the status of the man who is using them but instead lowers it. Most negs seem like thinly veiled insults coming from a random guy on the Internet. They then completely lose their playful and teasing tone. A lot of guys are just not happy or positive, and they feel an anger and resentment towards women, so they use the neg the same way they use an insult. Bad delivery.

Also very insightful of you to see that the best ones do not need negs because their actions, voice inflections and demeanor convey value — constantly. There’s a natural leadership and authority that comes with inner strength and confidence, and everyone can feel it. When they neg, it’s because they want to just be playful, have fun, be witty and funny. They don’t even do it with any other intention. That’s the kind of context in which the neg increases value.

Doing my weekly round of PUA blogs when i came across this fortuitous post by Roissy. Actually posted today. It is all about the NEG.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/20.....a-gay-man/

Entropy, over and out.

Annoying exhibit A:
This started with you having an obstinate objection to “neg theory”, claiming that (a)it doesnt work(“from your experience and that of your friends”) (b)it is morally objectionable. I pointed out that from my experience it works, and that (2) game is not about morality, but the calculus of power. And i also added: that i can no more convince you of the validity of my experience than you can convince me of yours. Each person to his/her own. This is completely rational position in my view. This, however, you have a problem with, insisting that you are right, that my counter argument based on my own experiential knowledge, is untenable. That since you are heterosexual female, therefore you must be more right(stupid appeal to authority fallacy thinking). I said, au contraire, the best person to ask about picking up hot women, are other men that pick up hot women–which is obviously true to anybody with a lick of sense. In reaction, you mysteriously started rattling on and on about how many times you get pickedup by men, how you are getting it or not getting it, yada this, yada that, etcetera.
Really, cupcake, cant you at least psychologically handle counter-factuals? Does it in the context of social dynamics, makes your head explode? Why easily go to pieces over a system held by others that just happens to be diametrically opposed to yours? If you dont have your candy all hell must break loose, is that it? You pound the table and throw hissy-fists, is that it? Please grow up. There is no santa claus. There is no tooth fairy. And appropriately negging a hot babe produces fireworks. Deal with it. You dont want to accept this, that is still marginally fine; but going about completely denying the success of a well calibrated NEG in all ways, shapes or forms, is just monumentally obtuse.

Annoying Exhibit B:
As if that is not annoying stupid enough, you then suddenly started going on and on and on about calling you a male over the internet(that you are a female), and then claiming that it is disrespectful. Seriously, sweet cheeks, nobody cares. Nobody gives a MERD. Really. Maybe daddy cares, you know, for her little princess; but nobody gives a flying bloody fuck on the internet. I have to ask, are you on any medication? Dont tell me all this is just your period acting up.
Because it is just bloody incomprehensible to me why you are making issues, raising drama about whether i call you male or female? Yapping on about, “the context female clues of the name ‘lioness’” with total strangers on the internet. LMAO. Dont tell me this is what you do–See how much drama over pure bollocks you can generate with strangers on the web?
Dont you have something better to do? Like cook for your man or something? You know, do his laundry? Clean his socks? Make him a sandwich?
Chicks and their issues–You are all the same….

Annoying Exhibit C:
My, oh my, then there is your feminazi issues with words like “solid fuck”, “pretty arses of foxy babes”, “substandard specimen of a woman”? What? You have issues with “sweet, sweet thang”?, “nice bunch of pretty, bouncy fucklets”? “round, supple, tightholes”? *SIGHS*. You are one Ahedonic cunt, you know that? Your whining about anybody that uses such expression, that they must be 40something year old, silver or gold medallion earring something, some sorts of hawaiian t-shirts. Are you selling t-shirts, Or were you just describing your ideal mate?

Annoying Exhibit D:
There is your pointless whining about something to do with my “SAT vocabulary and long paragraphs”. Are you Reading impaired? autistic? Comprehension-limited? ADHD? Or just plain Spastic? No post-graduate level education? You have issues with the robust use of the english language? What are you, sarah palin’s lost sister?
Seriously, you are asinine.

Listen up, bloke, you cannot expect me to take you seriously. Lass, you need to do better than this. For starters, you need to make me a sandwich, and then get on your knees in front of me. Preferably, on all fours, while i rest my legs on your back, using you as my footstool; then proceed to eat your sandwich while operating the remote on one hand, and sipping my beer…now and then, i will let rip a solid fart.

That will be all for now,

Entropy.

great post man.

context of value is key.

hopefully this post gets circulated and ruminated on; it might save the PUA community from turning into a ratiocinated circle jerk of new-age nerds trading pick-up lines and routines, using erudite acronyms and definitions.

again, awesome post.
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“It is the substandard ones that tends to make the most noise about these things.”- says the man who takes a minimum of 5 paragraphs to respond to each post.

And if you are not going to make assumptions- then don’t assume I am a man, you pompous bastard. And if you don’t give a damn, then why are you wasting your energy typing about?

And no your expressions don’t “bother” me. I just think you sound lame as hell. Like some washed up 40 something who trolls the bars in Hawaiian t-shirts with a gold medallion saying corny shit like “foxy babes” and other statements that died back in the 80s. Sound familiar? Yeah, cause that’s you. This conversation is now dead- just like your weak ass game.
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That is seriously funny. You almost sounded like an ex…but then, that will be bloody insulting to the ex….

Let me delineate this more for you: On the internet, there is no more context clues to “lioness” than to “dick ghengis”, as such, it is immaterial what a counter-party on the internet thinks or assume about the gender of “lioness”. The only person who gives a shite enough about the gender of “lioness” to bring it up, is you. The universe doesnt give a gnart’s fart of that tidbit. Get it? And if you find it disrespectful to be referred to as a male on the internet; well, tough bloody shite, cupcake.

SAT vocabulary? HAHAHA. HEHEHEHE. HOHOHOHO.

On your plethora of experiences versus my variety of experiences; or How much you are getting or not getting it; or Who hits on you or doesnt hit on you. Babe, ripe fruit, sweet cheeks, or whatever you want to call yourself……i have this to say to all that. ready to hear it? are you ready? Here it comes: *YAAWWNNN*……That totally ends that debate right there, cupcake. Hehehe.

Ahem, curious, why do words or expressions like “solid fuck”, “pretty arses of foxy babes” bothers you? If you have issues with these, take it up with your man. That is his department. Dont started wanking on the internet at random strangers because that person uses words like “solid fuck” or “pretty arses of foxy babes”.
You remind me of those physically insecure feminazis in women studies classes that have issues with words like “nice, bouncy titties”, “tight, sculpted bottoms”, “sweet, sweet thang”, etcetera, hell, i am sure “pretty arses of foxy babes” and “solid fuck” probably give them the vapours too. Ever noticed how most hot babes dont seem too bothered by the so-called “sexual objectification” of women? It is the substandard ones that tends to make the most noise about these things. You are not a physically insecure feminazi, are you?

That will be all for now,

–Entropy

Well if on the internet it doesn’t make me any more of a woman than a man, then don’t automatically assume I’m a man. I would think you would go on the most likely scenario and infer that I am woman. And even if I am a lesbian, I would identify as a woman- And if I was a homosexual male calling myself “The LionESS” it would mean that I would be identifying myself as a woman. Therefore, it would have been disrespectful to call me a male no matter how you interpret my username.

Do you really think you can throw out a couple of high school SAT vocabulary words and fool me into believing that you have a valid argument? No.

Note, that in my post I commented that I was speaking not only on my own personal experiences, but those of my friends as well. And just as you feel, that my singular opinion is not valid in its own right, neither is yours. The women you claim are beautiful may be based in comparison to you- and you may not be all that attractive, so a 10 to you can be an average man’s 5. At least from my standpoint, I can say that I (and my friends) have been approached by a multitude of guys with a variety of pickup techniques and I can give an opinion based on a smorgasbord of experiences whereas all you have is your own one trick pony of an approach that has been applied to women that you personally find attractive.

And your statement “pretty arses of foxy babes” is so damn lame, I can be quite confident that you ain’t hitting nothing.
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http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/.....index.html
(wonder if the G-manifesto wont spit out his cigar after reading this one. hehehe.)