A Hot Mess
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I’m a master of snap judgments.
Looking at this couple, a few words spring to mind. For him, I picture a life of being whipped, emasculated and eventually miserable. She, on the other hand, screams narcissism, entitlement and self-absorption. That poor man. The article describes her as Chidi Ogbuta of Allen, TX but doesn’t even bother giving the groom’s name, which is very indicative. He’s apparently just an extra in this epic movie that is his wife’s life:
Ogbuta said she had asked the groom for a “unique, personalized wedding” and he carried out the request “without reservations.” The cake took about a week to consume, with many guests stopping by to help.
Can you imagine how she’s going to financially bleed him dry if she’s already starting off like this? That cake is in no way cheap. She put the cake together by working with women in two different cities, a pastry chef and a separate woman to mold a likeness of the head. It must have been a logistical nightmare (and a financial nightmare for him).
“The cake actually fulfilled my childhood dream,” said Ogbuta, who said that she had long thought it would be fun to have a doll made in her likeness. While her fantasy never happened, she said the cake was pretty close.
I get the impression she was overindulged as a child, and is now going from spoiling parents to a whipped husband.
But I’m sure this is the worst of it, right? I’m sure she’ll show a lot of financial restraint during the marriage. And I’m sure compromise will come easy to her. And when they argue, I’m sure she’ll be empathetic and understand his point of view and value him and his needs as much as she values her own, right? But honestly, I don’t blame her. I blame him. If he’s dumb enough to tolerate that, why shouldn’t she go for it?
See the slideshow of the wedding here.
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holy shit!
What more is there to say.
EXACTLY.
Looking at her name, I would say that she is Eastern NIgerian. Don’t worry that was just for the wedding. He will be the one running the show.
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He’s doomed.
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Chic Noir, she may be ethnically Nigerian, but culturally she’s Americanized through and through. He will not be running the show, I’m sure.
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It’s Chidi’s world, and we just live in it.
How much do you want to bet that hubby dearest was just given a suit, and then told when and where to show up? All the other information about the wedding preparations would have been on a ‘need-t-know’ basis.
Apparently, there was going to be a life-size cake of the groom, too, but there wasn’t time to make it. He can spend the money saved from that and get ‘Welcome’ or a footprint tattooed on his forehead…
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That. guy. looks. like. me!!!!!!!
OH shit I’m doomed!
If they are Nigerian (they are!) um he must have had to give away a shit load of goats for that ass
I don’t think she’s a raging egoist. I think she has extremely low self-esteem. Otherwise, why would she ask hundreds of people to slice into and devour her HEAD?
The only way that cake could have been redeemed is if it had a big sign saying, “Ya want a piece of ME?!?!?”
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I read somewhere that she saved the head to keep in her freezer until their one year anniversary. If true, that means every time they open the freezer her grill’s going to be looking out at them.
I want her left boob, then. Extra frosting!
A fondant head in a freezer? Fabulous. Creepy.
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haha, he should’ve just taken a knife and slashed her throat right there.
he’d have the perfect excuse:
but the cake people did such a good job…
and they’re both cold, and they both just lay there…
i just had to take my best guess!
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but seriously now: the situation here is definitely one of the following two.
(1) hubby grew up with a tyrannical bipolar mother, and without the strong presence of an authoritative father, and has therefore become an obsequious sycophant, as noted here.
(2) hubby was (un)fortunate enough to have grown up almost exclusively in the company of caring, selfless women, and is thus completely naive to the ways of the predatory female. not unlike the way in which small-town bumpkins are especially prone to pickpocketing, street hustlers, etc. in their first encounter with the big city.
in either case, he’s about to get a big hit from the clue-by-four in the years to come. i wonder if anyone will follow up on these people?
I actually physically cringed looking at that picture. And I think your comments about it are 100% on point. That poor bastard.